Residents share memories of fatherly advice
A father serves many roles in the life of a child, often providing valuable lessons and advice through the years.
In observance of Father’s Day, area residents are reflecting on advice they recall from their own fathers.
Some focused on financial lessons, such as the importance of saving.
“My dad always said it doesn’t matter how much money you earn,” said Frank Bohach of Weirton. “What matters is how much you save and invest.”
Others warned of the importance of being careful financially in other ways.
“Everyone is after your money,” said John McCune of Weirton, jokingly adding such sentiment seems truer now that he’s older.
Deb Marino of Weirton explained her father instilled a love for travel, in part based on his own experiences during his military service.
“It’s a big old world and it’s yours to go and see,” she said of the advice.
Marino’s father served in the Navy for three years and then 20 years in the Army, traveling extensively as part of his assignments.
“In his last days, in the ICU when my dad was unresponsive, I told him that my husband and I were planning to take our three children to Europe before our oldest did a study abroad in Spain,” she said. “He seemed to have heard me, and he spoke volumes without saying a word by the single tear trickling down his cheek.”
Some remembered lessons in the importance of hard work and making careful choices.
“My dad used to tell me that, when buying property or building your home, location is the most important thing to consider,” said Rose Annette Arnold. “And he would say it in his Italian accent, ‘Location, location, location,’ and yes, he always said it three times. He also said work hard and always be truthful and honest. People will respect you for both.”
Many shared advice on how to interact with and treat others, as well as how to allow others to treat them.
“Don’t let the idiots get you down,” said Becky Uhlly of Beech Bottom.
Debbie Puskarich of Follansbee said she was encouraged to think of the needs of other people.
“Remember you are not the most important person in the world,” she said. “Always think of others.”
Mike Harris noted the importance of not letting others walk over you while still trying to be understanding.
“Love all. Understand some. Be a door mat for none,” he said.
Vicki Boroski Stephen had a similar sentiment.
“Serve God first in your life and treat others as you want to be treated,” she said.
Nick Travis of Weirton was taught to look out for others, especially the “little guy.”
“Stand up for those who cannot stand up for themselves,” he said.



